Reflecting on My Journey: 10 Things I Wish I Knew in My 20s

As I sit down to reflect on my life in my 40s, I can't help but think of the countless experiences that have shaped me into the woman I am today. If I could hop into a time machine and chat with my 20-year-old self, there are definitely a few pearls of wisdom I'd share. Here are some things I wish I knew back then, and the advice I'd give to become a stronger, more confident version of myself.

In no particular order...

1. Trust Your Gut: Oh, how many times I ignored that little voice inside my head! Trust your intuition. It knows more than you think and will guide you to where you're meant to be.
   

2. Value Authentic Connections: In a world where likes and followers seem to rule, I wish I had known the value of authentic, meaningful connections. Cherish those who lift you up, challenge you, and love you for exactly who you are. Surround yourself with those who lift you up. And love them hard.
   

3. Find a mentor. Find someone who you look up to, and get in their face. Ask them questions. Ask for advice. And listen. Listen hard. Take their advice and apply to your life if you want to make changes.
   

4. Take Risks: Life begins at the end of your comfort zone, they say, and they couldn't be more right. Don't be afraid to take risks, to leap into the unknown. That's where the magic happens. Get comfortable being uncomfortable.
   

5. Invest in Self-Care: Self-care isn't selfish; it's essential. Make time to nurture your body, mind, and soul. You'll be amazed at how much stronger and more confident you'll feel when you prioritize your well-being.
   

6. Learn from Failure: Failure isn't the end; it's merely a stepping stone on the path to success. Embrace it, learn from it, and let it propel you forward. Use failure as your greatest learning opportunity.
   

7. Value Your Voice: Your voice matters. Speak up, speak out, and don't dim your light to fit someone else's expectations. The world needs your unique perspective. Be bold. Be you.
   

8. Practice Gratitude Daily: Gratitude has the power to transform your outlook on life. Take a moment each day to count your blessings, to savor the richness of your life. You'll be amazed at how it shifts your perspective. And allows you to truly be in the moment.
   

9. Set Boundaries: Boundaries are your best friend. Learn to say no when something doesn't align with your values or drains your energy. Your well-being is worth protecting.
   

10. Believe in Yourself: Last but certainly not least, believe in yourself. You are capable of more than you know, stronger than you realize. Trust in your abilities, and don't let self-doubt hold you back. Believe you are the person others think you are. And continue to learn, grow and be better. Every single day.
    

As I sit here after entering the "midlife" I can't help but feel a sense of contentment wash over me. I am happy, confident, and deeply grateful for the rich experiences that have led me to this moment. My journey hasn't always been smooth sailing, but every twist and turn has shaped me into the woman I am today.

I am grateful for the incredible people who surround me, for the fulfilling career I've built, and for the abundance of love and joy in my life. So, to my 20-year-old self and to all the women out there on their own journey, remember this: life is a beautiful, messy, glorious adventure. Embrace it with open arms, and never forget the strength and resilience that lies within you. Cheers to the journey ahead!

What advice would you give yourself?